BEING AND UNDERSTANDING

Rebellion is one thing.
rebellion over not getting your way or not being accepted for who you are.
Not being appreciated for all you do.
Being expected to carry someone through.
Being asked to be someone you cannot be.
Being thought of as being weak, because you can show the full spectrum of emotion.
Being clueless about what you have done to upset someone.
Being asked to know that you should have understood that certain behavior leads to certain outcomes.
Being in touch with someone's feelings above your own.
Being expected to not always make it about you.
Being respectful of your partner's feelings.
Being re-assured that your partner will respect your feelings
Being kept at arms length for your actions.
Being quiet about your partner's social activities.
Being trusting whenever you're apart
Being expected to hold your own whenever absent from your partner.

Understanding the needs, desires, wants of your love.
Understanding when they need to be left alone to figure out their own doubts.
Understanding that what is said is not always what was intended to be said.
Understanding that not everything is about you.
Understanding your not always right, you do not have all the answers.
Understanding the needs of your partner and anticipating to accomodate them.
Understanding the need of space and separation when appropriate.
Understanding the need of being there for your partner when appropriate.
Understanding the limits of giving as in the taking.
Understanding mutual respect for boundaries.
Understanding when to say enough is enough.
Understanding the art of foreplay, allowing enough time to make it special.
Understanding your the reason they want to be with you.